I have a shelf set that i use and being 5'3 i feel like the clubs are a little to long so i choke down on the driver and low irons all the time. If i dont i feel very uncomfortable( especially with the driver) cause i feel like im 4 feet away from the ball or that im gonna break the club head right off cause the shaft is long. example my driver standing straight up comes up to about right below my chest....Is this wrong that i choke down ? I feel i have to...