I think you've been more than patient with him, I have a buddy who tends to stand behind me at times, I'm a decent player and he's got some work to do and I know his reason is to watch what I do to kind of learn if you will, but none-the-less it's distracting to my game, and I don't like it and have told him about it and he just needs reminders from time to time.

I think your case is worse than mine, on the tee standing behind is really a bust in the ****, I don't like it at all, especially dancing feet kind of people...I would get worked up about it just like you, your human.

Have you ever asked him why he does it and why he continues to do it knowing it bothers you? I'd start firing off questions and see what kind of responses you get and try and go from there...question in such a way that his responses may help him expose his own issues and then he'll realize it's wrong what he's doing...sometime folks just don't have a clue until you clue them in by having them see their own light....did I make any sense?