i have been searching the threads and don't see anything about advice on how to handle it...would love to get her to join the game with me , but, please, suffice it to say, this is not the answer.

the main problem is the time! and to some degree the expense , the game demands to get better... the wife cannot help to lord over me with this...

maybe this is an unsolvable problem. certainly an age old problem...

is there a solution....beleaguered....