New update:

Followed Avatars advice and ordered a lesson for tomorrow.
I have noticed during practice swings and shots with hybrid/woods/driver that the out too in swing path is even more visible then.
So I decided to kill two birds with one stone and ordered a lesson for how to drive the golfball with woods/hybrids.
Hopefully he will easier see what I'm doing wrong and what he teaches me with the longer clubs I can somewhat apply that as well to my iron game