Hey folks, have a question for everyone about a golf trip that I plan every year to Myrtle Beach. those who have read posts about me know how crazy I get come trip time. This year I got 24 people, we leave June 19th. I had no problems collecting my 100.00 deposits from everyone and sending them in in early April. I set a date of May 15 as being the date everyone had to have checks into me to pay the trip off. Now, I don't actually have to have the money in until Jun 4th, but I wanted some extra time in case of trouble, BOY AM I GLAD I DID.

Yesterday, one of the last guys to try and get money from, calls me, and tells me of his Wife's cancer. I know that his wife comes first, and wouldn't ever expect him to go. his wife keeps telling him to go, but she has been getting sicker and sicker after Chemo treatments, so he backed out. He had only paid his deposit, which i of course will do my best to fill his spot and get his money with him. My prayers, and our group's friends and family's prayers are with him and his wife.

In searching for another person, another person on the trip, who has paid in full, tells me he has to back out because of some golf tourney he was invited to pay, with an option to become a member at a hard to get in course. they take the fee from 4000.00 to 1000.00 with yearly dues being 199.99 after that.

My question is how should I handle the trip now. I have booked the rooms and golf as 6 foursomes, if I don't have it, the price has to go up, and somehow, some people won't be playing in full foursomes. I don't think I should have to refund a single penny to the guy who backed out for a Golf Tourney. Heck, if I have to find someone and have to join the trip for free, I don't think I should feel even the slightest bit guilty. I am having trouble rounding up 2 more people and have become very stressed out about it.

I would also like to note, since booking 20 or people, they give the trip captain a free trip. I declined, and worked the free trip into everyone's price. I want to shoot myself for that now.