I think JCgolfpro is correct. Learn the fundamentals of the golf swing before accepting any tips. Then a tip may be useful if it fits into your whole knowledge of what you are supposed to do. The golf swing is a rotation around a centre away from and towards the target basically with a dynamic shift of balance to the inside of the right foot in the back swing and a subtle shift of balance to the inside of the left foot at the beginning of the downswing. The body/centre basically must feel as if it is staying where it is during the swing. Many problems are caused because of lateral movement over the ball. If the rotation is done correctly then the arms/hands are essentially passive maintaining a light firm grip on the club with constant pressure. They will unleash correctly if your initial grip is correct and your rotation is around the centre.

Not sure if any of this helps but try to find out what it is the swing is about. Getting some professional instruction may be a start but if this is too expensive, there are some useful books or golf sites that offer useful guidelines.