I used to do exactly what Jim does... keep score in my head - strokes over or under 5's. It was something my dad taught me when I was just starting out. I've trained myself to quit doing that just the last couple of years. I found that I'd press too much when I got a couple over 5's and lose focus. It was hard habit to break and I still check my score before the last hole to see where I stand & what I need. But I just write down the 8 and move on knowing that there are a couple of par 3's ahead to make up the ground. About par 3's ... I love them. I only have to hit 1 decent shot and there's an opportunity to pick up a couple of strokes.... but I cut my teeth on a 9 hole , par 31 muni which is something I'd recommend for all beginners. My irons have always been the best part of my game and it must have something to do with hitting so many when I was starting out.