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Old July 17th, 2007, 07:06 AM
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Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

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Millions of words have been written about Tiger Woods over the years but none have ever led readers down a suburban street in southern California, past a fading 'Authorised Personnel Only' sign at the gates of Navy golf club and into one of the darker corners of sport's most gilded career. It was here, a few hundred yards from Woods' boyhood home, that he, his father Earl and some of his father's friends would meet up every Saturday morning for their weekly game. And it was here the boy genius developed his skills despite the efforts of people who were determined to make his early golfing life as miserable as possible.

"It was only a small group but they were in a position of power at the club. They had the choice to make life easy for Tiger or make life difficult. They chose the latter path," says Joe Grohman, who was an assistant professional at Navy in the early 90s.

"Part of the problem was some of the members didn't want a young kid running around the place but it was also because of the colour of his skin. There weren't that many black families in Cypress at that time, remember," says Scott vonEps, who worked in the pro shop.

"I used to think they treated him badly because they were ****** but the more I think about it they were probably racists, too," says Roger Wells, who was one of the Saturday morning gang.

Not that you will hear any of these complaints from Woods himself. The world's most famous sportsman is also the world's most reticent when it comes to his personal life and for a long time the Saturday-morning gang were happy to follow his lead. But the death of Earl Woods and the return of Grohman to Navy as the head professional has seen embarrassed silence turned into humble and public apology. "It's just a dark stain on the history of this place that I want to go away," he says. "We want Tiger to know that we are sorry, that we love him and want him to come home."

The chances of that happening are not good. Woods is a world-class bearer of grudges, although if he has a long memory for those who did him wrong there must be hope he will also remember those who coddled what they now describe as a special talent. Bob Rogers, a retired army officer who was a close friend of Woods Sr, played with Tiger almost every weekend from when the youngster joined the club, aged 10, until he went to college a few years later. He recalls a respectful, polite kid who was mature beyond his years and could hold his own with the older men when it came to trash-talking and, of course, when it came to golf.

Rogers was a witness to Earl Woods' unique brand of coaching and a willing sacrifice to its effectiveness. "One day I said to Tiger, 'OK, I'm going to match you shot for shot today, Tiger.' I parred the first hole and Tiger birdied it and, as we headed towards the next tee, he walked past me. He didn't even lift his head but I heard this little voice say, 'You're one down.' That was Tiger. He was such a competitive kid," Rogers says with a laugh. "I tell people that I used to kick Tiger Woods' butt . . . until he turned 12."

He was not alone. All of the Saturday morning crowd took a beating but still they jostled to get into his four-ball. "I had played with some guys who ended up on the tour, so I knew what a good player looked like and, believe me, this kid looked the part," says Wells. "Looking back, it's like a dream to think I played with the best golfer who ever lived."

At 13 Woods got his handicap down to scratch. At 14 he won his fifth World Junior Championship and a year later became the youngest winner in the history of the US Junior Amateur Championship - impressive landmarks on the steady march to greatness, all the more so because he achieved them against a backdrop of almost daily harassment from a group of club members and employees.

"They were always worried he was getting something for nothing," recalls vonEps. "If I was working in the shop, they would come and ask me if Tiger had paid for this or that. Tiger never expected anything for free but, dude, if I had anything to do with it, he was getting as much as I could give him. If he bought a $5 range token, I gave him $15 worth of balls. He was the best golfer of his age in history - I wanted him to have endless practice, as much as he could swallow. Do you think all those country-club kids he was playing against in the national championships around the country were sweating over the price of a bucket of range balls?"

Pettiness heaped upon pettiness. After he won his first US Junior Amateur Championship his mother, Tida, brought a tray of Asian food over to an empty clubhouse for a small celebration party but was turned away. The rule, even for national champions, was that all food eaten on club premises had to be purchased there. One summer Woods got a letter from the club informing him he had to carry a receipt with him at all times because there "had been complaints from club members".

"I know for a fact that no one else in the club ever got a letter like that," says Grohman. "Tiger showed it to me and asked me, 'Why are they doing this, Joe?'" I didn't know what to tell him. In the end I tried my best to protect him from a lot of stuff by not telling him what was going on."

Alas, his best was not quite good enough. Shortly after he won the US Amateur Championship for the first time Woods was approached on the driving range by a then club employee who, according to numerous sources, told him he would have to leave because there had been a complaint about an "n word" hitting balls there. "There was no way Tiger was hitting balls into anyone's back garden," says Rogers. "He wasn't a bad enough golfer."

Grohman was working in the club shop when he found out what had happened. "I ran over to their house. Tiger had already told Earl so, when I walked in to the front room, it was like walking into a funeral," he recalls. "I said I knew a three-star general, an African-American, and I could tell him what was going on. Earl said he didn't want to drag a general into the whole thing and Tiger felt the same. 'That's just the way it is, Joe,' he said."

This was always Woods' response and, when he was not brushing aside the indignities, he was trying to build bridges. One day Grohman idly mentioned to his young friend that he was embarrassed at the poor quality of the trophies he was forced to give out to the junior members. That afternoon Tida Woods called and said her son had suggested he donate his to the club for the use of the junior section. "She turned up the next day with 297 trophies," Grohman recalls. "Can you think of a 50-year-old who would want to part with his trophies, never mind a 15-year-old?"

But gestures like that did nothing to thaw the chill. After Woods's first US Amateur title he also offered to display the trophy in the clubhouse. "They just ignored him when they should have been proud to house the Amateur trophy, especially with all the names it had on it, like Bobby Jones and Jack Nicklaus," says Rogers.

In all Tiger Woods won the US Amateur three times. The trophy, meanwhile, ended up on display at Big Canyon country club in nearby Newport beach. The management there had heard about the young Tiger's problems at Navy and offered him an honorary membership. Woods, whose family would never have been able to afford the joining fee for a place like Big Canyon, accepted. He returned to Navy for the occasional practice session late in the evening but, when he left for Stanford University, the ties were cut for good.

For years visitors would never have known the most famous player on earth had spent his formative time at Navy club. There were photographs of other players on the clubhouse walls, of Arnold Palmer and David Toms but not Tiger. Grohman, who has a box of memorabilia, including some of the junior trophies Woods donated, is planning to build a shrine to the memories of the old days - but only the good memories.

"The other stuff is so ugly that I've never wanted to talk about it before," he says, shaking his head. "But I realise now some good can come out of it if kids in the inner cities were able to see what Tiger was able to overcome. And, if it also helps him realise that he can come home any time he wants, then that's great, too."
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Old July 17th, 2007, 07:46 AM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

tiger is so awesome hes such an insperation its ppl like them that make me try even harder
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Old July 17th, 2007, 08:29 AM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

Wow, my respect for Woods has went up 10 fold. Such ignorance just because of his colour.

No wonder he wants nothing to do with them now.
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Old July 17th, 2007, 01:06 PM
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wow, it is easy to take the stories of racial predjudice with a grain of salt when you hear mention of the fact they happened, but this fairly detailed account really brings them to life just how bad it was. It is great that those "old codgers" finally get the egg on their face they deserve!
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Old July 17th, 2007, 01:21 PM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

he showed those ******** didnt he, im a white person, and I cannot stand people who are racists, some of the nicest people I know are black and they are just as much gentlemen as we are, and people of all races
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Old July 17th, 2007, 01:59 PM
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there prolly crying themselves to sleep every night.
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Old July 17th, 2007, 02:03 PM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

This makes me sick. And the sad thing is, this problem is not over.

The snobby, rich, racist old men still run most of the clubs in the country, and not all of them have changed their ways.
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Old July 17th, 2007, 03:09 PM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

Tiger could have gone a couple different ways with how he handled this through the years. He'll make oblique references to experiencing discrimination, but never goes very deep into it.

My theory is as a practicing Buddhist, he takes the approach of not hanging onto anything.

He could have. He could have become bitter, or brought the subject up to bring shame those folks.

But he never does. Instead he has opted to take the high road above their pettiness and ignorance.

That is a class act. You either have it or you don't.
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Old July 17th, 2007, 08:40 PM
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

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My theory is as a practicing Buddhist, he takes the approach of not hanging onto anything.

He could have. He could have become bitter, or brought the subject up to bring shame those folks.

But he never does. Instead he has opted to take the high road above their pettiness and ignorance.

That is a class act. You either have it or you don't.
Well, the article does state this:

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Woods is a world-class bearer of grudges, although if he has a long memory for those who did him wrong there must be hope he will also remember those who coddled what they now describe as a special talent.
I just don't think he's the type of person who will air everything out vocally. He doesn't need to. The way he can show up those guys is by his performance on the course and off. Actions speak louder than words and Tiger sure has the actions to back things up.
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

Wow, Tiger sure didn't prove anything to those guys by becoming one of the best golfers ever.
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Woods is a world-class bearer of grudges
Well that's an opinion, not a fact.

I think Tiger is human, he loves getting even with folks who run their mouth, especially when he can shut them up with his play.

But he doesn't strike me as the type who lets anything consume him. He's got bigger fish to fry, and he's very intelligent about his imgage, e.g., he stays above anything that will come off as a petty grudge in print.
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

if i were tiger i would rock up 2 that golf club with all the top pros like adam scott, phil, jim, vijay, and b like hey guys wanna have a pro party only pro golfers are invited and go to the old member and b like wanna come 2 my party o wait ur not a pro bad luck for u lol i no i would do that
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if i were tiger i would rock up 2 that golf club with all the top pros like adam scott, phil, jim, vijay, and b like hey guys wanna have a pro party only pro golfers are invited and go to the old member and b like wanna come 2 my party o wait ur not a pro bad luck for u lol i no i would do that
Well, you're not Tiger. I'm sure he has much better ways to spend his time. As does Adam Scott, Phil, Furyk, Vijay and other pro golfers.
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Well, you're not Tiger. I'm sure he has much better ways to spend his time. As does Adam Scott, Phil, Furyk, Vijay and other pro golfers.
i didnt ask u
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Re: Golf wasn't always easy for Tiger Woods

I just don't think he's the type of person who will air everything out vocally. He doesn't need to. The way he can show up those guys is by his performance on the course and off. Actions speak louder than words and Tiger sure has the actions to back things up.[/quote]

yeah, remember what he did to Ames at the Match Play - was it 10 and 8 or 9 and 8, I forget.

He also gave Sabbatini a little jab about how many tournaments he had won in his career, compared with how many Tiger has won this year.

He will take the high road, but he isn't scared to let you know who is the best and he isn't going to take lip.
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